Here is a small message to the American Crew. Don’t get jealous the moment I say that I like other people. Ah! How can he like other people? He said, he loves American people! He is cheating on me ... he will leave us for someone else. Lol. It does not work that way. This “love” is a little bit different. You can’t behave like a teenage girl and limit the love by physical boundaries.
Ow, he also likes Latin people, huh? Will he date Latin people? Will he marry ... will he have kids and flow with the Latin culture? Lol. This is again behaving like a teenage girl and applying principles of love between one girl and a guy. It is not like that at all.
By the way, your freaking out and jealousy ... actually helped me ponder ... why I like people? I did some intellectual searching and I observed that ... I don’t help people at an individual level. If two guys are throwing punches at each other on the street ... I just walk by and I don’t even bother to intervene. But when it comes to masses ... when it is more than a million people involved ... and there is a systematic exploitation involved then I enter such arenas.
So, this love and fighting for people ... is more kind of associated with my instinct of system analysis. Yes, I do system analysis and show how systems can be made better for the benefit of the people ... but I also love people. And it is this love that puts the passion in my work. You know ... if God wants to help someone then it seems He puts love in the hearts of the people around him. So, with that principle being applied ... God put love for people in my heart because he wanted me to help people.
I said okay fine ... that makes sense. And I looked at how things worked around ... and I saw that ... mothers love their children ... irrespective of race, religion or color ... you will find that every mother loves their children. She will fight for them and protect them and want what is best for them. You will find this even among birds and animals. If you apply God’s principle of “love and help” ... then yes the young ones are weak and they cannot protect themselves and they need all the help that they can get. So what God did was he put a lot of love in the hearts of mothers so that they are well taken care of. It made sense.
But I did not understand the connection between the people and me. Yes, the mother loves her children because they are her children. She gave birth to them ... so there is some connection there. I did not create all of these people around me. I am not their mother. So how does this principle apply here? Lol.
So, I did a little bit more observation around me to get answers. You know ... sometimes when you don’t get an answer, the question gets stuck in your mind. You go around your daily routine ... doing whatever you do ... but that question still lingers in your mind. It is something like that with me when I don’t get an answer. I have this question stuck in my head. I started noting occasions where people help strangers. They don’t even know the guy and they will pounce to help him out. A building has fallen down ... and they hear the voice of a kid screaming for help from under the debris ... the people around will jump to rescue the child ... and they will not stop until the child is taken out of the debris.
One black guy gets killed by a policeman and there will be thousands of people demonstrating on the streets against that. I was like ... what is connecting these people to strangers? The connection is real ... you can feel it inside you and you crave to help. But what is this feeling and where does it come from? How are you connected to a stranger that you don’t even know?
Then I thought probably this is the reason why God created only one couple ... Adam and Eve ... and let the world expand through the children of the same parents. God could create a million people instantly if He wanted ... or a billion people if He wanted. But He did not do it like that. He just created one couple ... they had children and then they had children and then they had children ... and whole world expanded like that. We are all children of the same parents. We are all directly related to each other in some way or the other. We might be cousins or uncles or grand uncles in some far connected family tree.
And this explains why we humans jump to help each other. One earthquake occurs in one country and all surrounding countries are ready to send rescue missions. One tsunami causes destruction and people from all the over the world come to help. I think all of us being the children of the same parents ... Adam and Eve has something to do with this. Kind of makes sense in a very distant manner but shows the current close connections that we have.
So my dear lovely American Crew ... the thing is ... I start liking people in whichever country I live. It automatically happens. I will give you a list:
Latin people ... I like them because they are very simple and down to earth people. That’s a lovable characteristic.
Arabs ... very hospitable and closely connected people.
Black Africans ... speak right from their hearts ... very open in their conversations.
Indians ... they are my people.
Pakistanis ... their culture.
Malaysians and Malay Chinese ... very cooperative and understanding. They don’t get in your way and pressurize you to date and live with you forever. You can stick to your routine and they stick to theirs.
Indonesians ... very polite and sweet people.
Russians ... immensely talented people.
Jews ... yes, I love Jews ... for their brilliance ... in malice as well as good work.
So, here’s the thing ... wherever I go or whichever people I see ... I automatically find a characteristic among them that I will love. So, don’t freak out ... sometimes I am scared to say that I like some people ... fearing ... God knows how you will react.
And why I like Americans ... because I love the way they fight for what is right. And that attribute connects directly with my work ... my work is also fighting for what is right for the people. So, I closely connect at that level.
So this love is mostly instinct based ... it connects more with the attributes of the people. It is a requirement which helps me in my work.
40 and virgin ... heh ... lol!